Fire in the Upapada - Unstable relationships PDF Print E-mail
Written by Robert Dotel   
Thursday, 26 November 2009 21:07

हरे राम कृष्ण

Dear Sir, your desire for a stable and enjoyable relationship can be clearly seen in your chart. There is a reason for our rebirth, and the Atmakara or significator of the soul indicates such reason or purpose. The Atmakaraka shows our soul’s lessons to be learnt in this life. When the Atmakaraka is involved in any affliction, then such lessons are felt even deeper at the soul level and sometimes are difficult to remedy. In your case Shani (Saturn) is your Atmakaraka (AK).

Marriage is all about giving, and the ability to give is seen from the Upapada (UL) or Arudha of the 12th house. Your UL is in Dhanus (Sagittarius) with four grahas (planets): Guru (Jupiter) UL lord; Shukra (Venus) karaka for marriage, Chandra (Moon) Darapada lord; Budha (Mercury) 7th lord from UL, all afflicted by uccha Shani (exalted Saturn) your AK in Tula lagna (Libra).  In your chart there are too many aspects causing obstacles in relationship/marriage due to past life karma. To understand relationships we need to analyze the 7th house, its lord, and its karaka. The 7th lord Mangal (Mars) is exalted in the 2nd house from UL. This placement of a malefic shows the troubles to marriage/relationship; in this case Mars can the cause of aggression or even violence in the marriage. This is more so considering that Mangal’s dispositor (Saturn) is exalted as well, already causing damage to the UL. Mars and Venus are in a 2:12 relationship indicating timing mismatch, giving/expenses, disagreements and fights/arguments. This alone creates turbulence in relationship/marriage at times. Additionally, Mars the 7th lord in the 4th house can cause sorrow to marriage/relationship and disturbs happiness in several ways. Understandably, all this could be discouraging when it comes to living in a relationship.

The Darapada (A7) is in Karka (Cancer) the 6th from Arudha lagna (AL) indicating some incompatibility or differences about sex. Mars and Saturn (both exalted) aspect the Darapada causing problems in relationships, but the lord of the Darapada (Moon) placed in UL produces a longing to enjoy a fruitful relationship. Sadly its debilitated placement in navamsa doesn’t give much support.

As confirmed by you during our conversation, it has been difficult to conceive a child, and the causes for the lost pregnancy are the facts that the 9th house from UL is Simha (Leo), which receives rasi drsti from Shani, and rasi and graha drsti from Mangal; Leo is ruled by Surya (Sun) posited in the 2nd house, therefore the ascendant in the 12th from Sun makes it difficult to bring a soul into this world. Moon in UL would like to give a child, and Jupiter’s aspect on the 9th from UL too. This child may come into your life through adoption.

Jupiter, lord of the UL is badly placed in the 3rd house in Marana Karaka Sthana (MKS) and surrounded by fiery planets (Sun and Mars). This is a very difficult placement for Jupiter, suffocating, struggling to survive.

The Remedy: My advise to you is to do Aditya worship and Rudra worship in order better your chances to achieve your wishes in regards to relationship/marriage. I will advise you in private in regards to the worship. Remember that relationship is all about giving, and please learn to take away sorrow from others, and never to cause it. This is an opportunity for you to understand your life and the difficulties surrounding relationships, which will lead you towards freedom.

Best wishes,

Robert Dotel

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